As it pertains to relationships, I’ve always been a firm believer in wanting to take things slow. Why rush? Theres NO guarantee that it’ll work out, and there aren’t many differences in people for the most part. So if anything you’re just kinda rushing to find where you’re
More so though.. I prefer to not rush, because if I (we) decide to be committed, I want to feel as if I’m able to give you the best relationship possible. And I’m not talking about a Ferarri and lobster for dinner every night. Hell, I don’t even like lobster. It’s just that I don’t wanna miss out on anything. I don’t want to miss out on the things that make you unique… I don’t believe in the “cookie cutter” approach to relationships, so I’m not going to do what’s popular. Or what friends and family say is “the way”. I’m going to detail my actions to where it benefits you. Not what the going rate is. I’m going to learn your love language (as described by author Gary Chapman). Again, if I rush I’m sure to stumble. It’s going to happen. You wouldn’t wear a diamond earring without a back on it, so you have to be just as careful with love. It’s just as fragile. So I’m going to take as much time as necessary to learn you… To understand you. To get you. To see if you and I can work, and how likely will the investment be worth it in the end. Just being real..
Now if a slow mover like myself takes time, don’t look at it as they’re just not that into you. Taking time is what you deserve. I’m a worker when it comes to relationships. Not saying every free moment I have foes into you, but it truly inlates my ego to know I can make someone happy.. And if it doesn’t workout in the end, fine. I would’ve done all I could to make you happy. Why? Because I again, I took my time to learn you.. And learn what you like, and learn what you love, and learn what you need. Hell, I’m gonna invest so much time into learning you, that I’m gonna learn what YOU didn’t even know that you needed, and then I’m gonna provide THAT for you!!! Wait I feel like I’m ranting.. lol
Long story short… Take your time to learn them, and so that they can learn you in order to love properly.